Okay, so first and foremost… let me fill you in on the biggest secret ever. It’s really not that hard to tell if a girl is into you. As a woman who was two engaged, once married, and has been dating for what seems like forever in between, here are some things to look for to find out if your new love interest feels the same way about you.
What is your gut saying?
Think about a girl in your past that you definitely knew liked you. Did you have to question it or did you just kind of know she was into you. If you did question it, did she then later validate that she was in fact into you? Trust your initial feelings on this one, women want to be pursued but will leave subtle / not so subtle clues that you’re welcome to ask her out romantically. Your gut is usually spot on and will help you navigate new relationships. It will also help you figure out whether or not to cool your breaks with new girl OR give you the go ahead to proceed with caution in going for a new romantic relationship with this person.
How is her body language?
Women will face you when talking to you, fidget nervously with her hair, and touch your arm instinctively as to put you both at ease. She’ll make eye contact, keep close, smile at you and keep her focus only on you. All of this adds up to the fact that she isn’t closed off to contact with you and that she’s open to the idea of you. Think about it, if you’re talking to a woman who has her arms crossed over her chest and barely pays attention to you, she’s saying “Go away – I’m not open to this” through her body language.
Does she ask questions about you?
A girl that likes you will want to get to know you better. She’ll be excited about learning more about what your interests are and what makes you tick. Does she ask how your day was? Does she remember something you mentioned before? Is she open to hanging out with you doing something that you’re into even if it isn’t her cup of tea? These are all telltale signs she wants to get to know the real you and start to form a bond.
Does she make time for you?
We’re all busy and it seems like there’s never enough time in the day. But, between texting and real life plans, does she communicate and does she make herself available to hang out regularly? A woman that wants to see you will make you a priority not a fall back plan. Most people text differently, make plans differently, and communicate differently than you do. But since the end goal is spending time together you’ll both find a great middle ground to spend time together be it electronically or in person going on fun adventures.
Always err on the side of caution and respect your new friends personal space. Though she could be giving you the green light, remember that you are both two humans who can only proceed with consent from both individuals. Be flirty and have fun and talk to each other about liking each other. Be a little vulnerable with your heart and open up your feelings to make this whole thing easier. Imaging saying “I like you! I want to spend time with you!” and her saying “Me too! Yay!” Sometimes it can be just that easy.
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Light and love always,